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How dieting will ruin dating
Dating and relationships are about compatibility. Once you get past that early stage of dating, compatibility has a lot to do with the more mundane features of life. Like what we eat.
Ever try cooking dinner for a group of people with very different dietary requirements? Not fun. My son was a vegetarian at the same time I was on keto and trying to eat 200 grams of protein per day. Reconciling our family menu, the grocery list, and everyone’s happiness was a challenge to say the least.
At least family and long-time friends can navigate these trials. Those who are early in their romantic journey often have more trouble.
A Brand New World
Beyond four or five generations ago, a date might have meant a walk through the countryside or some quality time in the family parlor. Ah, the simplicity of it all. Today in contrast, choices abound to reinvent dinner or “grab a drink.” [1]
Meanwhile we’ve all gotten very niche with our diets. No fat. All fat. No sugars. Whey protein. Micellar protein. Cricket protein. Dairy free. Gluten free. Enjoyment free.
